As a child moves through the many stages of childhood to
young adult, schools, careers, travels and relationships, they collect and
save, stuffing their possessions in boxes that get shoved under their beds,
piled in closets or along with yours, in the attic, basement or garage. Some of
it may be thrown or given away, but then there are things that they just want
to hang on to. Then one day they will ask you what should they do with all this
stuff? How about suggesting they create their own personal museum.
Not only will their museum be a fantastic way to teach them
to appreciate their things, it is a way to install pride and confidence in
themselves. When they look, touch and show off their collections – favorite
toys, trophies, drawings, mementos from an organization they belonged to, gifts
they received, their old eyeglasses, even their baby teeth – all expound the
stages of their lives, the subjects that interested them, and the
accomplishments they made.
So when your kid(s) had a bad day – things didn’t go right
at school, their best friends just let them down, their coach told them they
weren’t good enough for the team – whatever tragedy besets them, as they run to
their room for cover, they’ll pass by the family museum and pause a second to
see that they did accomplish many endeavors and convey to them that they are an
important member of the family, and that’s what really counts.
Pride – that sense of self-respect and personnel worth –
gives your child a feeling of satisfaction derived from his or her
achievements. And most importantly, preserving their memories of childhood and
adolescence is a learning journey. That journey becomes their path to personal
mastery of the many subjects that interested them. Their museum can contribute
to the goal of building a future viable resume.
Our children (now adults) had fun while selecting their
favorite things to put in their museum. The next posts will be about their collections.
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