Nonsense.
With so much hype about getting rid of things will
achieve some sort of peace, as well as more space (to only just fill up again),
is creating confusion. It is this rush to spring into action, throwing things
out or giving things away can be detrimental. With so much dialogue about what
and how much to get of rid can trigger people to feel remorseful after decluttering
and losing these items forever.
There is also the philosophy that if one has a preference towards things that leads to an overabundance of stuff, it is possible
that these possessions would out shine relationships with people. What gibberish!
It is far better to understand that by surrounding yourself with things that
make you feel contented and more secure contributes to your well-being.
So what is the best way to avoid this path to regret?
Stop before you purge. Instead, think about what you have and give attention to
those things that hold fond memories; who, when and why you came to possess
what you have. First sort through those items, be thoughtful as you strategize your
course of decluttering and then clear-out what is meaningless. If you are
already in the state of regret, consider replacing the item.
Life is really a sentimental journey, and if you
trash your memories, you would end up lamenting and that can only lead to a
life of melancholy, and you don’t want that. Spark your own joy by holding on
to your memories.
For more encouraging direction, my book, Create a Family Museum and Save Your History,
offers suggestions, the ways and means of how to save, and a plethora of
references. Find it on www.amazon.com
or through the publisher’s website, www.HeritageBooks.com. “Keep some souvenirs of your past, or how will you ever prove it wasn’t all a dream?” Ashleigh Brilliant