When I showed my husband Keith this picture of him
with his dad, he smiled and said he actually can recall that thrilling moment.
Then I asked him what he valued most about his dad. As he pondered awhile, I
came up with the answer for him. After a quarter of a century coming to know
and understand their relationship, I believed it was what he inherited from his
father, who was an excellent carpenter; the indubitable talent for woodworking,
ingrained through their German heritage. For hundreds of years his family created
magnificent structures from wood, be it large like the 500 year-old church that
still stands, the century-old family houses still lived in today, or small like
the toys both his father made and those made by Keith today. My husband’s DNA
is a deep-rooted and remarkable and what Keith is most grateful for is having a
father who gave him this talent.
I asked Tiffeni what she
adored about her papa the most. These are her words: I am the proud daughter of a wonderful and talented and very smart man;
my Papa. From as early as I can remember I always wanted to follow him around
to see what interesting things he was doing. He helped me with homework, told
stories, and taught me history, geology, and math. He gave advice and was and
is always my friend. He taught me important things that I needed to know, and
unimportant and fun things too! He fed my imagination and creative spirit.
Here are two pictures I absolutely adore of Tiffeni
with her papa. On a RV trip to Minnesota for a family reunion, we stopped at a
campground that had a lookout tower. The three of us climbed the numerous steps
to the top and were rewarded with a panoramic view of the forest below. I quickly
took this picture and it truly reveals the father-daughter bond they have as
she leaned against him, his strength and sturdiness provided the security she
needed being up so high in the sky.
Gardening is their shared passion and to watch those
two traverse the yard, talking about what plants would look good, what trees
needed to be trimmed, bushes that needed to be moved, what vegetables and fruit
to plant, and so on, continually amuse me. Last year this gourd was planted and
grew and grew. When it came off the vine it weighed in at 32 lbs. and 18 inches
round. WOW! These two also love architecture. Being the first child born and
for 17 years was the only child, so our Miss Tiffeni was both son &
daughter to us. Then Charlie came along!
Papa Keith was away on active duty when I found out I
was pregnant. Tiffeni knew before he did and we worked real fast in remodeling
the den into a nursery. When he came home, both of us were giddy with the news,
but waited for the appropriate moment to tell him. So he asked, “What’s new? What
did you do while I was gone?” Our
conspiring looks made him nervous. “What are you two up to?” “Well, you know
the den and how we were not using it that much?” “Yeah,” he replied. “Well, we turned it
into a nursey.” “A nursey. Why would you want a nursery?” Then all of a sudden
his eyes got big, a smile as wide as a rainbow lit up his face as he asked, “A
baby? We are going to have a baby?” We both nodded and he fell on one knee,
kissed me and hugged Tif and the rest is history. And here he is, Charlie! The son
he always wanted and a brother Tiffeni thought she would never have.
I asked Charlie like I did Tif a few words about his
papa: He wrote: “Papa was the first one
to hold me after I was born. I was told I opened one eye, but the bright light
made me close it, but that was the instant I knew I saw my best friend, my
papa. From that moment on we spend time with each other every day. With his
military knowledge and my love for history and ships, we went to lots of maritime
museums and watched ocean liners when they came into port. I enjoy helping him
around the house, and is the greatest teacher. Forever best friends, we two!” 
Proudly wearing his Chief’s uniform, Charlie at one
year of age sits on his papa’s knee and smiles. Their shared interest in ships
has taken them on many adventures. Here they are on the deck of the SS John W.
Brown battleship on which that took an excursion on. 
Father’s Day is indeed a special day, and we are
fortunate to be together to celebrate this man who is not only the best father
any child could ask for, but the best husband, too. So on this day, we will
shower him with gifts, cook a fabulous meal, and Keith will take to his heart this
wonderful moment filled with love. 
