Charlie loves old paper and in the mall is
the best antiquarian paper dealer Whiting’s Old Paper. Charlie has been collecting ship memorabilia, especially about the great
ocean liners. His collection of books, menus, post cards, etc. is mind-bogging.
As soon as we entered the mall, off he went in search of more.
Tif and I meandered from glass case to
glass cabinet filled with antiques and collectibles galore. Such as these old toys. Some
we recognized as either knowing someone who had the same thing or sadly, that
someone in our family had one just like it, but it is gone. This leads me to
feeling melancholy at the same time annoyed to see what people have discarded.
I am sure they had their reasons: the item was no longer useful, it was
unwanted, tossed out. And so many of these things are absolutely beautiful,
charming, and in my opinion, still useful. The things that really get me upset
are items of historical importance, especially military possessions, vestiges
of remainders from past wars and battles proudly fought and sacrificed made.
For example, why wouldn’t a family want to
keep these swords, guns, helmets, badges of honor, even diaries telling the
soldier’s story? Still yet there were photographs, autographed Yearbooks from
military academies, medals, ribbons of distinction, and uniforms.
Moving on after we had enough grief, we
find looking at old furniture very enjoyable. We marvel at the construction and
materials used, imagine the house and room where the grand dining set proudly
waiting for holidays meals and special occasions. Tif loves old Hoosier cabinets
with their commodious compartments. I enjoy looking at fashion items; fancy purses, jewelry and hats. Again, we ask each other why didn’t someone want that leather purse, rhinestone pin and stylish hat. You see many of these items in antique clothing stores and so much more online.
Oh well,
as they say, one person’s trash is another’s treasure.
Yet there is one very good attribute that
comes out of these emporiums of memories, and that is they may have what you
may be looking for. Something to replace the one that was lost, given away or
trashed. You can find just about everything and when you do you can place it in
your family museum to either tell or
enhance your story. And another feature these antique merchants give are lessons
in how to display. Study the cabinets, the shelving, and the lighting. The careful
placement and eye-catching presentations. Have fun going down memory lane, even
though you may feel a bit melancholy. That feeling can make you actually feel
grateful for the things you did save. So go on. Visit an antique store or mall,
talk with the dealers. Appreciate the service they provide and then go home and
fill your family museum with memories.